Sexy Lingerie – Not Just For The Man's Pleasure

Many men have a desire to see their partners in sexy lingerie, but often women regard it as being somewhat demeaning or overtly sexual. They may think that it means their man isn’t happy with the way they look and want them to be tarted up in the bedroom. They might dismiss the concept of wearing a piece because they feel they don’t have the right body shape. So, often a gift of sexy lingerie is consigned to the back of a drawer or closet, never to see the light of day.

Here’s a thing though, that many women fail to realise – sexy lingerie doesn’t have to be about dressing up for a man in order to please him, and feeling ridiculous or resentful while doing so. We can do it for ourselves.

I used to be into strictly boring undies like white bras and cotton panties. I would never have dreamt about wearing stockings, a plunge bra, anything satin or indeed anything sexy. A new lover, a man who adored sexy lingerie on a woman, changed all that. Gentle persuasion meant that I tried new things without dismissing them out of hand. And guess what? I started to enjoy wearing sexy lingerie.

Girls, I have to say that silk, satin and lace feels good against the skin. And sexy lingerie looks good on a woman. Whatever your body shape, there are pieces that will enhance it. When we go out, most of us like to wear clothes that suit us and give us confidence. The same applies to lingerie. If you begin to understand that it looks good on you, then wearing sexy lingerie will make you feel more confident both in and out of the bedroom.

So next time your man gives you a gift of sexy lingerie, don’t call him a dirty old man and refuse to wear it. Give it a try – you might be surprised at how sexy and confident it makes you feel.